5 Things Girls WISH Guys Knew | Secrets to Understanding Women

Why the heck are women so difficult, or
are they? In today I wish to decode the female perspective a bit and hopefully
make it easier for us guys to understand it. So I did a little bit of research, and
today I’m bringing you the top five things most girls wish us guys just
would think we just understand. Number one, girls love being told how you feel
about them but just don’t overdo it don’t overpower them. When you get too
mushy and too needy just from the get-go, like writing a
heartfelt three paragraph poem about how she’s the stars to your moon. You could
be 100 percent sure she’s gonna be running the other way. That’s why they
always say nice guys end up last. Women love the thrill of the chase, which is
why it’s important for us as guys to flirt enough to show interest in that we
are actually interested in them, but be able to walk away and hold back a bit to
make her chase us. Trust me, they love that stuff. The second thing almost every girl wants guys to understand is that they want us
to make the first move. This is funny because most guys are scared of talking
to girls and making that first approach. But believe it or not, girls want you too. Almost 99.9 percent of women want you to make the first move
and when you actually do that shows courage confident and interest on your
part, and something that she’s not gonna be able to resist. On the other hand
while waiting and making her make the first move might work it is ten times
harder and it’s not as efficient. The third thing most women want guys to
understand is that they want you to be well groomed. Now most girls won’t
probably ever say this to your face, that you’re a slob and you need to fix yourself, That’s kind of the equivalent of a guy
telling a girl, “you’re eating too much.” But deep down all girls want is a clean,
guy not a slob, they want to be dating a George Clooney not a Jack Black. So
here’s my personal checklist that I run down to make sure my grooming is A1.
One, my hair is well groomed and combed Two, my beard is tidy and well-kept. Number three, my unibrow is in check and trimmed up. Four, my nails aren’t dirty and they’re kept short. And finally number five, my clothes are wrinkle free and lint free. I recommend all guys to have a proper grooming kit, for emergencies, to make sure your grooming is on point like this one that I carry.
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below to The Roam Kit and use that code to get 50% off. The fourth thing girls want guys to understand is that they overthink the smallest things, and you
need to understand that. When you’re texting a girl, when you’re talking to
her, anything you say could be triggering her or taking her off-guard thinking
that you you meant something else. You could be chilly and just say “okay” and all of a sudden she thinks you’re mad at her because you sent her a short text. Keep in mind that women are wired differently than guys, so things that we think are
okay might not be okay in their eyes and they might perceive it differently. So
all they want us guys to understand is that perspective, be a little bit more
considerate. Another one is you could be you know roaming on Instagram you see a picture of a girl you hit “like” it was aesthetic, you thought it was nice, in her
head she’s like “what is it?! Is he cheating on me?” Yeah, I know
sucks, but you got an understand it. And finally number five, kind of talking along
to that, one girls just want to be understood. Here’s my little trick when it comes to women, just listen. I know, I know that
seems simple, but actually pay attention to them to what they’re saying for a
little bit. I know sometimes they talk a lot, but if you actually listen and don’t
make sure make sure your heads not roaming somewhere, you’re thinking of
other things, you’re paying attention, you’re gonna make your happy, that’s all
women want. As long as you’re listening to women, you won’t be confusing her
because like I said things that bother her might not bother us guys, we’re
wired differently. But if you listen, you’ll be ahead of the curve. That’s how
I save myself from fighting all the time with my girl, it works. And that’s basically it guys, those are five things girls wish us guys would understand. If you guys liked
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100 thoughts on “5 Things Girls WISH Guys Knew | Secrets to Understanding Women

  1. yes jose!! you get it!! LISTENING TO WOMEN IS ALL YOU GOTTA DO!! i see so many of these "what guys like about girls" videos and stuff and it's so problematic. but you do such a good job of just putting the message out there about how we are people and we want to be understood and listened to just like guys!! also, sorry you guys have to deal with jealous girls!! must be a pain

  2. This man is fkn genius. He manages to market everything! This guy is the most reliable businessman I've ever seen.


  4. I am a woman were difficult because we try to test the man so there on there a game actually I have a crush that I really like and he likes me and I have never been I a relationship before and I need to know how do get a guy so some one help me

  5. Jose the type of Zuniga to go take estrogen pills to understand the female mindset

  6. The way you understand women is by knowing guys if you are not good looking you gotta pai 4 sex

  7. Last step is fucking simple… I listen to what anyone says even if im playing a game where im super focused…

  8. Jose I bet you’d look even hotter with messy hair.

  9. I Will share this video with every men that I know 😁👏👏👏👏

  10. Is it fucked up to hit on your best friends crush when u know how much he wanted her but u lowkey want it too.

  11. Bruh. Tip 1: don’t chase women, don’t show them a lot of attention. Tip 2: approach women first

  12. I dont think attempting to "decode the female perspective" is a major turn-on man. Watch out.

  13. School started 2 days ago, and by following your tips a girl came up to me to, so thanks i guess…

  14. Here are tje list of wut they want
    1 shop 18 hours a day
    2.never stay with another girl that is hot or sometin
    3.Us mens will be the one to pay the bills.
    4.Take a photo of sometin delicous
    5.Always say "OK" even if shes wrong
    6.Buy everything they want no matter how expemsive
    7. Women has a very loud mouth
    8.Always go to the washroom when your in a fastfood or restaurant so she can eat you food
    9.if she ask "im i fat?" Say no even if she is
    10.always go online so she wont get mad thinking maybe you with anotje girl
    11. Always go offline because she thinks your chatting other women
    12.Call her everyday because she tought you dont love her
    13 never call her because she thinks your distubing her even if you dont even know what she is doing
    14.she gets mad at you if you text 1 girl even when about 34 guys are texting her and you dont get mad
    15 never go with friends

  15. Im not doin this on purpose but all the girls touch my hair then thats when my girl looks at me

  16. This guy can be Taylor Swift boyfriend or every single girl in the World, honestly

  17. 1:I woke up
    2:I went to school
    3:I asked my crush out
    4:she said yes

    Now read this in the order:2341

  18. Is the first one about the girl wanting a chase true about a girl that's been in a relationship for almost 5 months now? I'm worried that I might be smothering her I mean I just do it because I love her with all of my heart and wanna tell her every second of every day but it doesn't look like she likes it she never responds whenever I send her a ton of nice things I mean it hurts but if it's what I have to do to make her like me more should I be more cold? I know she likes bad boys so that might be part of it idk I'm the absolute opposite of a bad boy

  19. Having a girl and liking other girls pics is the most cheapest qualities in a guy and also a big turnoff😑

  20. No one answered this question about girls:

    Why are most of them are the same – confusing?

  21. Thanks for this video and the last point you mentioned is what i did since i dated my girl….and indeed that made my relationship much better
    Your videos provide the info i need
    Thanks for your videos
    May god bless you with loads of happiness

  22. Jose the type of zuniga to put 8 adds in 1 vid and still make it 5 min

  23. My girl (not in a relation) would give out a little sigh sometimes. Now I want to know why. But to me. I think it means that she's trying to breath after feeling good around me 🙂

  24. Is it possible to buy things of your shop on the internet if you live in The Netherlands?

  25. Shut it off at 3 minutes. That's 3 minutes of my life I'll never get back

  26. I honestly don't want to have to chase someone. Like yeah, I don't want them throwing themselves at me all the time, but I don't want to always question myself and asking, "What the heck am I doing and why am I doing it?"

  27. Ha ha I’ve been listening to girls for over a year and all of them can stay in a decent talk with me, listening to them is the best way to get them to like you, the downside is that sometimes you spend too much time listening to them that you don’t have enough time to be with the guys, that was my error. Btw I’m 12

  28. I was born female. I'm the exact opposite of what this video says. I'm ok if a guy, or girl, is messy, just not so messy I have to clean. I don't like people who think I'm gonna do everything for them and cook and clean. I don't like chasing guys, or girls. I like getting to know them. If they share my interests, I might consider dating them or having them be my friend. I'm currently dating a female. This is the opposite of how I act. Some girls do this, SOME. Not all. SOME. I don't act like this. I'm Nonbinary, but I was born female. This is the exact opposite of how I act.

  29. Jose, I understand that you want to make money from sponsors. That being said, if you told us the stuff you actually used, and kept affiliate links in the description, you could make as much or more money, and you could get more views.

  30. Wow just wow..smh lifes complicated enough smh..i think there really needs to be a class on womens feelings seriously cause thats some complex stuff dude

  31. I don't know which haircut suits me can u tell a haircut that's best in school


  33. When a guy meets a girl and talks about her to his friends, they: "how does she look like? Is she sexy? You got a pic?"
    But when the girl talks about him to her friends, they:"what does he do? Is he rich?"

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